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  • Lanny EDNAABLES 10:52 pm on 01/04/2021 Permalink | Reply
    Tags: COMMUNICATION, THE KEY OF MARRIAGE   

    COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY TO BETTER RELATIONSHIP 

    When it come to relationship , despite it all , at least once, u shd express how u feel to another……I learnt that from a client brief

    Most times, we do things ignorantly and the other party don’t know it hurts. Communication is key, except you are shout to silence by the other via violence or something, then u may walk out in silence without compromise.

    If you doesn’t express urself in a relationship, you will keep walking out of most sweet n ugly relationships without getting d satisfaction u deserve.

    I remembered a client(thou a friend) story. Her husband loves to be on his laptop, tablet , phone gadgets for hours even when he is at home. The wife kept enduring n never said anything on how she felt abt d neglect thinking things is gonna get better. Years pass by, she got more irritated and in disgust she called me that she wants a divorce. My style is I don’t jst recommend to file a divorce petition without stylishly subjecting my client(friend) into counseling .On an occasion of visit, I ask her a question……have u ever for once discussed it with ur husband? she said ….. NO
    I asked y
    She said …..becos he is cheating on me and asking is a mere avenue for an excuse from him.

    I lured her to give it a trial.
    Little did I know that by the time she confronted him about it, she realised that her husband felt she was cool with him bringing work files home to treat even during weekends since she never complained, while all along his wife felt he had been cheating on him due to that neglect . she later called that she doesn’t need a divorce n issues all resolved.

    I am not saying that walking away is wrong or right but my point is before you do, let it be on record u have at least once expressed ur hurt about his/her attitude you don’t admire. Even if u break up or make up later, such person may see reasons to amend esp if he loves u more and if he doesn’t then u walk away with no guilt in you.

    Most divorce cases I see in court, during trial u realise that lack of communication begret a natural death in their relationship/marriage….EDNAABLES

     
  • Lanny EDNAABLES 10:25 pm on 01/04/2021 Permalink | Reply
    Tags: DEPRESSION DEFINITION IN A SECONDS   

    Depression 

    A gradual weakness of hope.The truth untold to live again. The pill of choice to anticipate death despite life at hand

     
  • Lanny EDNAABLES 10:23 pm on 01/04/2021 Permalink | Reply
    Tags: A Hand of Humanity   

    A HAND OF HUMANITY 

    Never give up saving a life.
    Mostly, we got slam for sake of humanity.
    We got rejected for being an advocate of humanity.
    We got judged n criticised contrary to our intentions towards d act of humanity
    Above all…..never get depressed and dismay …..Always do the right thing others cant do on account of hypocrisy.

    Our act of humanity should b upheld despite societal moral decadence …..Never be discourage to give more to humanity against all odds.

    EDNAABLES

     
  • Lanny EDNAABLES 10:06 pm on 01/04/2021 Permalink | Reply
    Tags: JUSTICE or SILENCE   

    TRUTH OR DARE 

    A man that shuns aloud moral decadence n injustice stands for fairness and upholds humanity but a man that is silent to injustice is worse than the unjust act committed…… EDNAABLES

     
  • Lanny EDNAABLES 2:57 am on 01/04/2021 Permalink | Reply  

    BREAK UP OR MAKE UP……INDECISIVE 


    When a man/lady totally make up his/her mind from not showing his/her affection towards lover anymore, the first thing that comes into her/his mind is cease communication 100%

    We all have reasons y we quit.
    BUT,
    Its immature to quit when u know u still love him/her and u have not psychologically move on without giving on a fight to make up.

    Its immature not to discuss ur feelings n depressed thoughts abt things d other persons does ….that drive u on and things that make u go crazy

    Its immature to quit without trying all possible best to keep ur relationship going and letting d other person know how u hurt and how u still feel abt d relationship before u walk away

    Y block him when u were unable to secure ur mental health? Am always furious

    I tell my friends, clients and fans that who come for legal advise on: whether to divorce or walk out in a relationship, esp ladies that…..can u handle d mental state of ur mess aftermath,

    If u can…..
    Have u given the love a reason to fight for ur relationship for once

    The ability to test waters on how to make things right is d strength of a lover who thinks the relationship isn’t what he/she expect thereon and the character of a partner not bin a good listener to d passive grieve of his/her spouse or lover is a weakness 100%

    Only a coward and an immature with due respect will walks away without an excuse and communicating ur reason to d other…

    I say something to myself…..a relationship where u can’t express ur thought maturely n peacefully without bin always criticised, blamed and nagged/shun, does not deserve ur commitments to the other

    A relationship where u are not given d opportunity to express ur love, your need, your unhappiness, ur worries, ur visions, ur fears and tears doesn’t deserve ur love, care, fight, sacrifice, devotion,emotions and perseverance 100%

    We all have reasons y we fall in love, reasons y being lovable n reasons y we keep loving another in courtship and our love and care is of no worth if the other partner’s character is not inestimable value.EDNAABLES

     
  • Lanny EDNAABLES 12:09 am on 07/03/2021 Permalink | Reply  

    LANNY DAIRY 

    5th MARCH, 2021

    I woke up looking like stars,vibes of expectation and zeal to get the best of the day. A ring on my phone was a long time friend pop up. Wow, she remembered me today.Its being awhile I shown a beep. Conversation begin……..
    Hello……
    Hi dear.
    Do you know today is my wedding anniversary? ……..
    Oh!!!!congrats!!!No I didn’t………
    You didn’t see my Flood of pictures on facebook……..
    I havenot checked my FB acct,I am currently not online,but Congrats!!!!. ….
    .So!When will u join my crew,married people group I meant. Are u not tired of being single?……..
    Sure!!!Soonest dear,i promise to let you know……..Hurray!!!time wait for no man.You are not getting younger either….
    .No wahala!!!Thanks for your concern.Congrats once again!!!!!Do have a nice day.Thanks for the call……
    .Beep off!!!!!….
    .Lanny’s heart beats….
    God have mercy,remember me for good promptly.
    Music on…..
    Tension released………..
    .EDNAABLES

     
  • Lanny EDNAABLES 2:50 am on 30/03/2020 Permalink | Reply  

    LOVE AND REALITY 

    MONDAY, 30/03/2020
    You want the kind of man u ever admired, You love the man u crush at all nite.
    Memory flashes by,dream man seems unreal.
    The truth is….Are u d kind of lady he ever wanted?…….Think thru sweetheart!
    You want attention of a man,then u must give urself such attention first.
    To have d kind of spouse u ever wanted,u gonna build urself to d lady he ever desired.
    You cant give wat u don’t have and u can’t get wat u don’t desire.
    Build urself and hit d goal…..EDNAABLES Speaks!Dedicated to ALL Independent women out there who wana succeed in Marriage and Career 100%. Truth! or Dare!!……………………Await your responses!

     
  • Lanny EDNAABLES 3:50 pm on 05/02/2020 Permalink | Reply  

    The Journey Begins 

    Thanks for joining me!

    Good company in a journey makes the way seem shorter. — Izaak Walton

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